8 Universal Tips for Singles: Finding and Keeping the Love you want

How to up your chances of finding and keeping the love you want.

1. Erase all negative words in your dating/online profile. Words like "I am so lonely!" or "I am frustrated!"

Although interesting, keep any current detailed family/divorce court proceedings to yourself. Attractive singles are more likely to be attracted to a happy profile. You can reveal the court drama later when you've known and trust the person more.

2. Be sincere! If you are seperated, do not say you're divorced. You can keep the other personal things about yourself or your family a secret. Like, you do not want people to know you're as rich as Paris Hilton's grandpa or some other "unspeakable" secrets for example.

Everyone has skeletons in their closets (I do!) but you do not need to show everything at one go. Think of a potential relationship like peeling onions - a layer at a time slowly!

3. Prep up yourself! Do you need a new hairstyle or haircut? Make yourself feel good....look good. Pamper yourself once in awhile.

Take up a short course even; life is a never-ending learning journey anyway. Other singles will detect and feel more attracted to you by your talents, knowledge and enhanced persona!

4. Sometimes love is like a phone call. It stopped when you're just about to pick up the call! Sometimes love comes when you least expect it.

What I am saying is, DON'T wait for love to come! Keep busy while it finds its way to you so you don't get spider cob-webs while waiting for that call! lol

Always keep yourself busy with what you love.

5. May be you'll find someone while doing sports you enjoy. Tennis? Swimming? What is it YOU enjoy?

Love dogs? Look for people with dogs as their pets. Find like-minded people. You're more likely to stick together too!

6. Ignore the CRAB! If he supports the right wing of politics, and you support the left wing, ignore it! You do not need to be supporting the same things in order to enjoy each others' company.

Look at the big picture - does he make you happy? Is he able to treat you with respect even when he's had a frustrating day at work? Look at the big picture.

7. And of course, keep your personal confidential information to yourself. No revealing of where you live, etc. You do not want to be stalked. Neither do you want your identity to be used for some online frauding sites. (If a person is persistent, flag him to the authorities or, ignore and block.)

8. If you come to a point where you'd like to check his/her marital status, do it but do it discreetly! The truth may be important to you, but so is a person's self-esteem/privacy. Perhaps it's time both of you need to chat about it. Be as honest as you can!

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