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Awaken Her Feminine Radiance

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Awaken her Feminine Radiance is different approach to being more successful with women and dating. Let us first define 'success'. Success means to convey oneself as a more desirable and attractive male.

So how does on become a more attractive man? The approach advocated is one of Servant Leadership. Women want a man to lead. Having spent five years doing various partners dance styles - Argentine tango, salsa, West Coast Swing, I have summarised and distilled what women find to be a good lead.

Being a good lead in dance is no different to be a good lead in conversations with women, dating or in the bedroom. I asked all types of women at all types of dance 'What makes a good lead?' The same set of qualities and behaviours were given consistently.

What became apparent is that the new concept of Servant Leadership that is emerging in the corporate world is exactly what women want in a lead - in a man. Traditional leadership with the Taoist attitude of a leader serves his followers and not the other way around.

Awaken her Feminine Radiance explores the concept of Feminine Radiance and how to not just awaken it but to ignite it. So what is Feminine Radiance?

Feminine Radiance is the place where a woman feels truly like a woman, feels alive and vibrant. She is not just in her beauty but owns her beauty. She is fully at ease allowing her Feminine Radiance to emanate into her world. When a woman is in her Feminine Radiance, she is not just ready to engage in The Dance of Man and Woman but is drawn into The Dance of Man and Woman.

It is like a log fire, unlit, that waits to become alive. When the log fire ignites and becomes alive, it becomes entrancing, beautiful and mesmerising. We can gaze into a log fire for hours, watching the flames creating one unique picture after the next, listening to the crackles and feeling its heat. The log fire not only becomes something of beauty and interest but also emanates its heat, its warmth to the world, making the world literally and metaphorically a warmer place.

This is merely a limited metaphor of what Feminine Radiance. How many times have you seen or been with a woman who has her Feminine Radiance awake. Her eyes sparkle, her face has colour, she is confident, alive and in her greatest flow, the flow of Love. She is aligned deep inside with herself and able to go out and radiate her femininity. What man cannot say that this not the most beautiful place to be in his life?

It is our role as men to Awaken Her Feminine Radiance. We can only set the logs in place and create the spark. The log fire is its own master, dictating how and when it will burst in to flame. It is worth the surrender and worth the wait. 'He who would direct Nature must first obey her Laws.'

Have you ever noticed that woman describe the great seducers as making them feel that they are the only woman in the world? A good lead, an attractive man, is able to enter a woman's world and discover what she finds interesting, exciting and awakens her passions.

It is said that a great conversationalist is a very good listener. You may have been at a party where someone mostly listened to you and you leave feeling they are a great conversationalist.

Here are some opinions women have said make for a good lead and women find men who lead well in life attractive:

Smile: smiling is so important. It was one of the most important aspects that make for a good dance. A smile is a signal from ancient times that we are a friend not a foe. It also signals that we are enjoying the dance and enjoying being with the person.

Eye Contact: not rigid staring but without eye contact it gives the signal that one is unhappy with the other person. It also means that very little connection can occur. Also, avoid looking at other dancers or eyeing up one's next dance partner. Women have said this lacks being present, connected and interested in her.

Enter Her World: look, listen and feel as to where she is at. In dance, I would say that you should determine what her dance style is (smooth, street, ballroom, jive) and her rhythm (fast, slow and staccato) and match it. It is for the lead to match her and then lead her. For those unfamiliar with these terms, if she talks about TV and talks quickly then enter her world and talk about TV and talk quickly too. Then when you have built up rapport can you lead her somewhere else. If you talk about politics and talk...slowly... you are effectively saying that you are not interested or concerned with her.

Her Name: our name is the nicest sound we hear. If you ever hear your name mentioned in the background you automatically and instinctively focus on it and place attention there. It is also a sign that you have a connection and that you see the person as an individual, a person, rather than depersonalised. Asking her name shows interest and attention and also helps to create a connection. Use her name as often as you can.

Try out these seemingly simple ideas and be curious as to the difference it can make to your dating.

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