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How to Spot a Pick-Up Artist

By Expert Author: Susan Stone
View Summary | Submitted: 2008-05-28 | Word Count: 444 words
Susan Stone
Techniques to Watch For
How often are men rude to you in a bar? Pretty often, I suspect, but how often does a seemingly well-meaning man come to your rescue? Be wary of the rescuing party. One of the tips given in the most popular pick-up guides is the rescue technique. This involves one friend coming on too strong or acting inappropriately, thus allowing another friend to impress the ladies by coming to the woman’s rescue. How to spot this trick? Does the man seem to have a relationship with the other? Do they exchange winks or other knowing looks? Were they talking immediately before the bad behavior started?

Although it is plausible that one friend has had a few too many drinks and the other is really interested in making him stop his inappropriate behavior, when this is legitimate, the “nice guy” will pull the offender away and attempt to keep him away. When it is a pick-up, the “nice guy” will stick around and try to talk to the female interest.

Another popular pick-up trick is when a man picks the most attractive girl in a group and then proceeds to flirt with all of her friends except her. This sometimes works because the pretty girl is jealous and is used to getting all the attention. Fortunately, only girls whom I would not like as a friend fall for this one. If someone is hitting on my friend, I am happy for her and I try to leave them alone if she likes him. If the man were to then start chasing me, I would think he was rude for hurting my friend’s feelings.

The Lure of Pick-Up Guides
These books are popular with shy men. Confident men usually have their methods established before they are old enough to go the bookstore and shop for a book like this. Pick-up guides may actually be a benefit to women because most of these shy guys are actually looking for a girlfriend, but without the confidence boost that believing they have a “system” give them, they would be too shy to talk to a girl. Unfortunately, when the “system” works, whether by chance or stupidity, the shy guy sometimes develops a over-inflated ego and starts down the road of bad behavior. Girls, be sure that you let the shy guy know that you like him the way he is inside and you were not fooled by his pick-up tricks. Just me guys, despite what you may have heard, women do not like jerks.
About the Author/Author Bio

Susan Stone writes for the website Pick-Up Myths and answers questions on her Pick-Up Myths Blog.

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