Article Sphere Logo
 
Main Article Categories

 Alternative Medicine
 Arts And Entertainment
 Automotives
 Beauty
 Business
 Communications
 Computer And Technology
 Disease And Illness
 Finance
 Food And Beverage
 Health And Fitness
 Home And Family
 Home Based Business
 Insurance
 Internet And E-Business
 Legal
 News And Society
 Pets And Animals
 Product Reviews
 Real Estate
 Recreation And Sports
 Reference And Education
 Self Improvement
 Shopping
 Travel And Leisure
 Women Health And Fitness
 Women Interests And Issues
 Work At Home
 Writing And Speaking
 All 511 Categories
 
"Success" Article
 Article Directory Home Self Improvement Success

Mentors: No One Moves Ahead Quickly Without Them

By Expert Author: Nicole Matoushek
View Summary | Submitted: 2007-10-20 | Word Count: 511 words
Nicole Matoushek
Two decades of intensive research has proven what we all know intuitively: those who have significant relationships with people they consider mentors advance more rapidly professionally and personally. They become aware and learn the attributes of successful, fruitful and highly energetic people. No one advances forward quickly without significant help from others.

So the fact is: those who have mentors advance more rapidly professionally and personally. But mentoring may not be what you think it is. We all have mentors. We all have many mentors. Sometimes it is just becoming aware of who your mentors are.

Mentors are people in your life who listen, encourage, support, challenge and advise you. They provide direction. They help you to take a look at your situation or issue from a different perspective and help you to see the possibilities and options that you did not see initially. They allow you to make an informed and thoughtful decision and assist in problem solving to increase your confidence, strengthen your abundant attitude. They provide you respect.

Traditionally, we think of mentors as our boss, a superior who may be training us for a higher position within an organization. We need to shift our thinking to a more collaborative, developmentally focused view of mentoring. We need to open our minds to who we may consider mentors in our lives. Our mentors may be friends, co workers, family, authors or clergy. We all have potential mentors around us each and every day. This team of potential mentors has our personal growth and development in mind and of which any of them are experienced and able to guide us or provide direction.

When you are in need of assistance or guidance making an important decision or obtaining knowledge on a certain skill, task or career, it is recommended that you create a mentor list. On the left hand side of a piece of paper, list the current issues or opportunities. On the right hand side, list the names of people you know or trust to help you to make a confident and purposeful decision. Do not worry so much about matching the people up; just put the names on the paper. Think with an open mind. Try to come up with 10-15 names. Next, reflect on each person, what they like, how they form their opinions, what experience or expertise they offer and what you admire about them. Remember, one does not need to be an expert in an area in order to offer you good sound advice on your personal or professional development. Develop a team of mentors and advance your success and abundant attitude in record timing.

Mentors can also be people who are successful or have achieved what you are trying to do. These mentors can be the most powerful source of guidance for you, and you do not have to have one on one contact with them. Buy their books, read them, listen to their tapes, read their bios, start to think and act like them and you will surely fast forward your dreams into reality.
About the Author/Author Bio

Nicole Matoushek MPH, PT
Author of "Acquired Hope: A Journey of Advanced Recovery and Empowerment" and "365 Days of Abundant Hope"
http://www.AcquiredHope.com
I am passionate about educating, inspiring and empowering others to obtain abundant health and wealth: my websites dedicated to success and abundance tips: http://www.ChooseYourResults.com , Http://www.AcquireAbundance.com and My success tips blog: http://www.AbundantAttitude.com

Article Source: http://www.articlesphere.com/Article/Mentors--No-One-Moves-Ahead-Quickly-Without-Them/108632

Comments on this Article


More "Success" Related Articles

 

Listed below are more articles related to the above article from the "Success" article category.

People interested in the above article "Mentors: No One Moves Ahead Quickly Without Them" are also interested in the related articles listed below:

Whether or not you realize it, average folks actually make it possible for other average folks to become winners. This is the time to evaluate yourself and your future. It takes some real, heart felt honesty. If you really want to change your life for the better, here is how to start. Above all, you must believe that you have the potential to do just about anything you dream of doing and that you can become just about anybody you want to become.
Someone once said - "Overnight success takes about 15 years." There are exceptions but for most famous people it was a long road to get to their destination at the top. It might not take you that long, depending on the level of success you are trying to achieve and how many obstacles you must overcome, but it will take unwavering focus.
If you've placed second in a writing contest, did you jump for joy and push for better results the next time or did you get discouraged and accept second place as an excuse not to try again? The joy of life is it is always filled with exciting choices. You may opt to have a pessimist’s view and live a self-defeated life or you may decide to take the optimist’s route and take on a challenging and fulfilling life.
The title of this article has been named after a chapter in the powerful personal development and business development book called “The Answer” by John Assaraf and Murray Smith. This book has had such a positive impact on my business and personal life that I felt compelled to share what I have learned and how I have applied it in my world.
Do you ever wonder why things seem to happen to others and pass you right by? Did you know that those people are most likely attracting good and positive things into their life? Are you ready for good things to happen to you? Well, here's how it works...
When it comes to personal behaviour and getting your daily activities in harmony with your life goals, it is absolutely critical to have a system in place. Brain researchers claim that between 90-95 per cent of all human behaviour is habitual which means we literally perform these activities without really thinking about them. Without a system to govern your critical activities, you will very likely fall victim to your habits and never truly accomplish the goals you set out to achieve.
You might already be aware that becoming motivated to attain a goal is the easy part, while maintaining that motivation for any length of time is where we encounter difficulty. Maintaining concentration on the task, or discovering your motivation to attain a goal may turn into a drawn out process, and can sometimes lead to frustration.
Article Directory Home Self Improvement Success

Can't find what you're looking for? Try Google Search!
(Search in 26 languages: English, Spanish, French, Japanese, Arabic, Italian, German,
Chinese Simplified, Chinese Traditional, Dutch, Korean, Portuguese, Russian, Greek, Serbian
Slovak, Hebrew, Swedish, Romanian, Polish, Norwegian, Finnish, Danish, Czech, Croatian, Bulgarian)
 
 
Copyright © 2005 - by Larry Lim, Singapore - Article Search Engine Directory at ArticleSphere.com™
All Rights Reserved Worldwide. All Trademarks and Servicemarks are the property of the respective owners.
Template Design by Internet Marketing Singapore | Internet Marketing | Singapore Classified
Español Français Bulgarian 汉语 漢語 Croatian Czech Danish Dutch Finnish Deutsch Ελληνικά Italiano 日本語 한국어 Norwegian Polish PortRomanian Русско Serbian Slovak Swedish [أربيك] Hebrew