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Oil, Gold and Diamonds

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I want to ask you a question. Where do the greatest treasures and resources come from? By treasures and resources I mean substances like oil, gold and diamonds to name but a few.

They come from below, underground and need to be mined and brought to the surface.

So it is with intense and deep emotions and feelings. Scary for men, but exciting for women. Deep within woman are the treasures and resources for intense feelings and states. She has experienced them, felt them and been very interested in them.

As a man, we don't have to recreate these feelings on the outside; we can tap the treasures within her. Talk to a woman about a wonderful experience you had rafting down a raging river, a river that twisted and turned with frothing water, the sense of excitement and unknowingness that was like electricity tingling throughout your body that lead to a sense of aliveness and connection with the world. Tell her about the feeling of centeredness that you felt knowing you could experience fear and excitement at the same time and that having this centeredness you felt able to go forth into the world and project your essence and uplift the world.

If you have had a rich experience and you can share it with some detail, with some depth, a woman will be able to find that same type of experience within her and feel it, experience it and love it!

Yet, we have not taken her on a date. We have brought out the oil, gold and diamonds that are within her and she will appreciate us for doing that. She will be in a vibrant and intense state and will have had a rich and deep experience just by being with you.

Charisma. It has been defined as being and emotional leader, being able to lead those that choose to follow you to the emotional promised land.

Perhaps you could enrich your 'relating' with women by going within more and focussing less on the going out. Moreover, you could now bring out the true flavour of any date by bring out her oil, gold and diamonds whilst on the date. Talk more about what the experience feels like and ask how she feels about the experience and her feelings about her feelings. It is a simple and possibly radical idea. Those ideas do tend to work, don't they?

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