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Use Hypnotic Conversation and Sway Others
Expert Author: Michael McGrath | Submitted: 2007-09-13 | Word Count: 1430 words | Views: 46 view(s) [View Summary]
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What if you could get what you wanted from others simply by asking them? What if you were able to embed commands in your everyday language that allowed you to control the actions of others? Do you think you could benifit from having such a skill?

Would you like to gain a greater influence over situations in your life that require some form of negotiation? Perhaps you would like to be more in control in your business relationships, social interactions or perhaps your love relationship could benefit from your ability to clearly and powerfully express your point in a way that is totally understood by the other party involved.

This article is going to introduce you to Hypnotic Language and how you can use it very effectively to tip the balance well in your favour in situations were any type of negotiation is needed. You are about to learn the language that speaks directly to the subconscious mind without the listener even being aware of it.

Very clever hypnotists and NLP practitioners developed a way of manipulating common language words in order to fully relax their hypnotic subjects during hypnosis sessions. It was from this initial use of hypnotic language that "hypnotic conversation" was developed. Hypnotic conversation is an extremely simple yet highly effective technique used to influence the listener subliminally to obey certain commands you give them. Hypnotists use this all the time however, it is begining to be used in the business world as more and more people want to gain that extra edge. This hypnotic language is extremely subtle and goes completely unnoticed by 99% of the population.

The technique itself is simple to perform but hard to explain. It starts with your tone of voice and it is your intonement of certain words that holds the power to influence. Firstly, you must place only the slightest amount of emphasis on the words in a sentence in order to change its meaning. For example you can change a spoken sentence that appears to be a question or proposal into a powerful command!

Let's take a simple example with the following sentence that a hypnotist would use during a trance sequence, "maybe you want to relax completely or maybe you just want to chill out" - seems straight forward enough. The hypnotist is suggesting that it is the choice of the subject as to whether they wish to relax or not. However, in this example he has only given the subject two choices - he can either relax or "chill out". This is powerful in itself but the power of this sentence is greatly amplified when hypnotic language is also incorporated.

So to manipulate the sentence, and the subject, even further with the use of hypnotic language we need to change the sentence from the proposals "maybe you want to relax completely" and "maybe you just want to chill out" to the commands "you want to relax completely" and "you just want to chill out".

Doing this is quiet simple. However, before you can fully utilise this powerful technique it is wise to understand the reason why it is so effective.

The actual words you use are not as important as the way you convey them. Only 20 percent of the communication in any sentence you speak comes from what you are actually saying. Non-verbal communications, such as body language, tone of voice and gestures make up 80% of the meaning behind any message that you are trying to convey to people. This means regardless of the words you are using and what it is that you are actually saying, your body language, posture, eye movement, blood flow to the face and a myriad of other signals tells a person exactly what you are trying to communicate. For this reason we can often get the sense that someone is lying to us or not telling us the whole story even when they are swearing that what they are saying is the truth. Subconsciously we pick up on these non-verbal clues and "read" the situation as being different from how the person speaking is trying to convey it. Those people who can beat lie-detector machines can, either consciously or unconsciously, regulate these non-verbal communications to reflect the lies that they are telling - however, thankfully, they are very few in number.

In your communications the intonement you use in your everyday lanugage is a very important factor in all speech. Your tone of voice can convey messages to your subconscious mind that go unnoticed by your conscious, rational mind. It is through the use of your tone and the spacing of your words that you can literally hypnotize the person you are speaking to. By using hypnotic language techniques you can literally change any words within a sentence into powerful subliminal commands.

For instance in the above mentioned example the hypnotist would say the sentence in the following way, [slow and melodic] "maybe" [in a harder authoritative tone and with more emphasis "YOU WANT TO RELAX COMPLETELY", [slow and melodic] "or maybe" [again in a harder authoritative tone and with more emphasis] "YOU JUST WANT TO CHILL OUT".

You should be note that this effect is subtle. Until your attention is brought to the technique you will be totally unaware that it is being used - it only becomes noticeable when it is pointed out to you. Sometimes, however, during a hypnosis session you can be consciously aware that the hypnotist is speaking in a strange manner but you have no clue as to what exactly is going on. You would merely think it is a part of the hypnotic induction process. In your everyday life, however, it is important to ensure your hypnotic language is even more subtle for, what should be, apparent reasons.

Let's look at an example; you have a proposal to offer your business associates at an important meeting. You need this proposal to be accepted and decided to use hypnotic language to give you that extra edge. You may say something like the following, "perhaps if you give this some thought you may find that this is a good idea and one worth pursing now or maybe even in the future". This is simple enough suggestion that on its own has little power. Now we are going to manipulate this very same statement by changing it into powerful subliminal commands.

Try saying this: "Perhaps if you give this some thought you may find that -"

[Pause for a millisecond longer than normal and change your tone only slightly]

"This is a good idea and one worth pursing now"

[Shorten the normal pause between the last word and the next]

"Or, maybe even in the future".

The statement, through your use of tone and pacing, has become a hypnotic command. While the listener is consciously unaware that anything is happening his/her subconscious mind picks-up the difference in pacing and tone and identifies the command within the sentence as follows - "perhaps if you give this some thought you may find that.... This Is A Good Idea And One Worth Pursuing Now..... or maybe even in the future".

You should play with this use of hypnotic language and hypnotic conversation until you can use it with ease. Be warned though, if you perform it in a hasty or unrehearsed manner it can be blatantly apparent to everyone what you are doing! The experts at hypnotic language speak in such a way that their intentions go totally unnoticed by the conscious mind and people just find them to be very persuasive.

Listen to some of your hypnosis tapes or hypnotists while they are speaking and see if you can identify the subliminal commands they are using during the trance sequences. This will ensure you start to develop and refine these new skills and make you a master at using them in no time. Try to listen to several different hypnotists because, as with everything else in life, some people are better at their job than others.

Before you try to use this skill in a real situation please practise it on someone you know well who will give you honest feedback. Speak a hypnotic command to them in several different ways and watch to see how their behaviour mimics your command than ask the person were they aware of anything different about your language. Ask the person if they could tell that your words were spoken differently than normal. If they identified any changes in your tone and pacing ask them did they realise exactly what you were doing. After some practise and some surprising outcomes you will soon be using hypnotic conversation daily!

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