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Why You Should Avoid This Emotional Love Affair

Expert Author: Frank K. Githinji | Submitted: 2008-03-05 | Word Count: 527 words | Views: 17 view(s) [View Summary]
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You thought you were the last person they would find if they went looking for an emotional person. You are now confused since you met this person who tapped your feelings and now you are all emotional. Which route should you take when it turns to be an emotional love affair? Everything you do turns out to be contrary to your expectations. You are too emotional. Emotional love affairs turn out to be so hurting. It takes long to collect the pieces and move on because they rarely last. Every issue in an emotional love affair ends up in a mess. Keep your emotions in check since they are the same ones which brought you together. Love as an emotion can confuse human mind and beats all intellect. Be wise.

Emotional love affairs come crashing down since intense feelings impair the level of thinking. A previously happy affair takes a turn and becomes frustrating and saddening. Most emotional love affairs use the tit for tat phenomenon. An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind so to speak an emotional love affair. It looses direction and focuses on revenge. What do you think will happen when i feel so hurt that my partner has failed to call me. I might be dying to hear him talk i do not care about what even if it is nonsense but just his voice. I will not call him though i will be hurting. Imagine if he also gets stupidly emotional and reacts the same. The affair will simply be a game of shifting blames and on the way to the rocks. To avoid an emotional love affair, do not take revenge to more than loving your significant other back. Just love him/her.

I think i do not care if you love me so much it makes you cry all the time. The problem comes in when you hurt me by the little things you do and it makes me cry. It is not worth if i hate how much i love you. It will stop being a love affair to a war affair. An emotional love affair pushes each partner to fight with their feelings. The more you fight with yourself and reject your intense feelings the more they hit back at you. You will try and fail miserably most of the times. If you get lucky enough not to reach exhaustion, you will succeed in separating with your partner because logic dictates that such an emotional love affair is harmful to your social life. At the end of it you will have scars in your heart which you might take to the grave. To avoid this, do not encourage an emotional love affair at all costs.

An emotional love affair sabotages communication. When you are too emotional, language tends to hit the wall and expression takes a back sit. Without communication, misunderstanding is unavoidable. Please if you notice your partner is going down that route, talk about it. It is in a word. You will never guess it unless you keep talking. Be slow to anger and an emotional love affair will be news to you.

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