Expert Author: Van Lint Ineke | Category: Happiness As long as you try to be somebody else to please your parents, peers, husband, wife, boss, children, neighbours or whatever, your energy will be stuck. You will feel exhausted, deceived, angry and tired.
So why not follow the road where your energy takes you? This is your road, your way! If you do things your way, if you dare being yourself, you will feel the energy. This IS freedom!
Expert Author: Van Lint Ineke | Category: Happiness There is no such thing like people with a lot of energy and other ones without energy. The difference is that energetic people know how to activate this always available energy. And the low energy people, they block this energy, which is although always available for them too!
Expert Author: Van Lint Ineke | Category: Attraction Do you feel lonely, are you dreaming of the right one who will show up one day and end all the misery you're going through now? The bad news is this will not happen. The good news is YOU can do a lot yourself to feel loved.
Expert Author: Van Lint Ineke | Category: Success To realize any dream you want, follow these five steps or conditions : you need a strong desire, a clear positive goal (written down), a strong belief in yourself, a positive thinking pattern and consistency. With these five ingredients you manifest any of your dreams!
Expert Author: Van Lint Ineke | Category: Happiness What does that mean to love yourself? Loving yourself is building a strong inner connection with yourself. You need to learn how to be a loving parent for yourself. First you need to develop your female energy : your Inner Mother, that part of you that is always caring, loving, accepting and understanding you. You also need to develop your inner masculine energy : your Inner Father, who is there to protect you and to act for you in the outside world.
Expert Author: Van Lint Ineke | Category: Motivation We are programmed to do things the hard and difficult way, in order to get what we want. How would it have been if they've told us the truth? That life is easy, wonderful. That miracles happen all the time and that we have the power to make them happen in our own life! That the universe loves us. That there is wealth and health for everyone. That we don't live in a universe of scarcity but of abundance. That we only have to put the right thoughts in our heads to make these dreams real for us.
We have been created to live our life in freedom, health and wealth. If our life doesn't look like that, it means we block ourselves by our thoughts. Our thoughts are very powerful instruments we use to either create happiness and wealth, or sickness and poverty.
If your life doesn't look like what you're dreaming of, it means you have thoughts which go against you. Your thoughts create your life. If you want to change your life, change first your thoughts.
Expert Author: Van Lint Ineke | Category: Success The universe will give you health, if you learn to think in terms of health, not illness. You will have success if you think in terms of success, not failure. Everything you think about repeatedly will manifest one day or another. So why not think of what you want, instead of what you don't want? In either way you will get what you asked for! So ask for good things by thinking of
good things.
We all need energy to live and to survive. As long as you think this energy has to come from other human beings, you will get caught up in struggle. Because human energy is limited. You have to fight for it. It's the responsibility of each and every person to generate energy by himself and not to depend on other people. Loving another human being is giving him energy! See the difference? Do you want to love your loved ones or steal their energy?
Expert Author: Van Lint Ineke | Category: Attraction In life we get what we ask for. Everything starts with a thought. A thought is an energy. Energy wants to manifest itself. A lot of thoughts in the same direction will, that's for sure, manifest in the real world. This is the process of creation. Start thinking positive thoughts. Think only thoughts you wish to see happen in real life. Think only what you want to become true.
Expert Author: Van Lint Ineke | Category: Happiness People complain. They're complaining all the time about everything. As a child, I was innocent enough to believe what people were saying. In the meantime I found out that good things can happen only when we stay connected to each other and to the Universe. It's all about "connection." Connection to each other. Connection to the Universe. Gratitude and happiness are an attitude, a state of being. It has nothing to do with circumstances.
There's no need for you to imitate anybody else; they already exist. It would be a big waste of time trying to be someone else. You are at your best being yourself! The world needs you as you are, exactly as you are! Dare to be yourself. The more you dare to be yourself, the more freedom you will feel. The more freedom you feel, the more you will dare. Daring and freedom support each other to re-create your unique self in an ever expanding celebration of Life. Your life.
Expert Author: Van Lint Ineke | Category: Attraction If you are like most people, then you too have this strange tendency to wait for others to fill in your needs. This pattern of "waiting for others" is a bad habit, causing a lot of pain and stress in your relationships. It can even be fatal and needlessly ruin a relationship!
Reason enough to take a closer look at this habit and learn how to handle it.
When you have a relationship, at home or at work, with a person who's constantly humiliating you, harassing you, pressuring on you, taking pleasure in your pain, saying negative things about you or making you feel worthless, then you are caught in a situation of emotional terrorism. Break up! To destroy yourself is not an option and won't help them out either! You were meant to be loved, never forget that!
Expert Author: Van Lint Ineke | Category: Love Why is it so difficult to keep the juices flowing in a relationship? Why does the momentum of the relationship fade away? Is it inevitable that after some years the initial freshness turns into devastating boredom? Or worse, that two people who were first lovers end up hating and destroying each other? Real love is supportive. Love yourself, love your dream, love your mission, love your life, and surely enough, a wonderful person will show up and love you even more.
Many people are building their inner balance and happiness on one single pillar. This is a dangerous situation! If you want to live a life of inner calm and peace, don't just lean on one or two pillars, but make sure to invest in all six of them. When you are resting on six pillars and one of them crumbles, there will be no need for drama. You can still support yourself with the other five pillars while you start repairing the one that broke down.
Expert Author: Van Lint Ineke | Category: Divorce You feel lonely, misunderstood, frustrated in your relationship. You're swinging back and forth between staying or leaving. How to get out of this torture? Stop focusing on your relationship, stop driving yourself crazy running around in circles and get to work at what really matters in life: you, your mission, your passion, your specific talents and what you came here to do. A good relationship will help you on your way. A bad relationship will try to hold you back.
Your dream is the reason for the way you are. Your dream is not a coincidence. Your dream IS who you are. You SHOULD pursue it! Your dream gives you a sense of meaning and purpose, and drives you on into your chosen future. Your dream IS the meaning of your life! Get your dreams off the shelf! Focus. Strive. This is how things were meant to be. What you are dreaming of accomplishing in your life is God's way of getting you involved in his Master Plan.
Expert Author: Van Lint Ineke | Category: Parenting The most important value you will ever teach your children is: to respect their parents. Never argue with a child. You are the parent, you are the one who decides. You can negotiate with your child, but don't feel you need to explain yourself. Kids have much more energy than you do, and sooner or later you will give up (or give in) because your energy is spent while theirs is not. They know that and they will win the battle! Don't get tempted to go into endless discussions with your child. Learn to act after the second warning. Be consistent! That's the only way to get respect.
Let me give you a very effective recipe for "getting sick as soon as possible": just go and try to fix other people's problems! I'm not kidding! Always trying to come up with solutions to problems that aren't yours is a dangerous road to follow. Always ask yourself, "Whose problem is it anyway?" If the answer is "his" or "hers," then do not interfere! Never help when you have not been asked to help!
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