Komunikacije s Teens - 7 Nikada u slučaju kvara Secrets

Communicating With Teens -- 7 Never Fail Secrets Komunikacije s Teens - 7 Nikada u slučaju kvara Secrets By Expert Author: Ali Bierman By Expert Autor: Ali Bierman
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Allow me to paint you a picture. Dopustite mi da Vam boje sliku. You and your teen talk about issues and rules as they come up. Vi i vaša teen razgovaraju o pitanjima i pravila kao što su pošli. While you have disagreements that you resolve, you never have fights where one person wins and the other loses. Dok ste da ste riješili nesuglasice, nikada ne borbe, gdje jedna osoba pobjeda i druga izgubi.

Sound impossible? Zvuči nemoguće? I raised two kids that way and now I am going to share seven steps to lead you down the same path. I uskrsnuo dvoje djece na taj način i sada ja odlazim, da dijele sedam korake kako bi Vas voditi kroz isti put.

* If you want your child to talk with you, then give him a reason to trust you. * Ako želite da se vaše dijete da razgovara s vama, onda će mu dati razlog za povjerenje. Keep his confidence. Čuvati svoju povjerenjem. Ask him if what he tells you is something between the two of you or if it is okay to share it with anyone, including family members. Pitaj ga, ako je ono što vam je nešto između dva od vas ili ako je u redu da to podijelite s drugima, uključujući i članove obitelji. Honor his wishes. Poštuj njegovu želju.

* When you listen, be there 100%. * Kada slušati, nalaze se 100%. Erase any other thoughts or postpone them until later. Izbrisati bilo koje druge misli ili odgoditi sve dok ih kasnije. Let your mind be free to focus on what your teenager is communicating -- spoken and unspoken. Neka vaš um bude slobodna da se usredotočite na ono što je vaš tinejdžer komunikacije - rekoh i unspoken.

You can be there, fully at 100%, when you are not listening to that Little Voice in your head tell you about your child or what he is saying. Možete se ondje, u potpunosti 100%, kada se ne slušate, koji Little Voice u glavu, kažem vam o svom djetetu ili ono što je on rekao:. Instead you will actually be listening to the words of your child, his emotions and his complete message! Umjesto toga će vam biti zapravo slušajući riječi vaše dijete, njegove emocije i njegove potpune poruku! Big difference. Velika razlika. Huge impact for both you and for your teen. Ogroman utjecaj i za vas i za vaš teen.

You must be free from agendas to be there 100%. Morate biti slobodni iz Dnevni red da se tamo 100%. You have no idea what your teen is about to tell you nor do you have any idea what he wants in coming to you, so ask. Nemate pojma što se oko teen da kažem vam, ni da li vi imati bilo koji ideja što on želi u doći k vama, tako pitati.

* Ask how your child wants to be listened to. * Pitajte kako se Vaše dijete želi biti slušali. Does he want an opinion, suggestions, advice, or does he just want to blow off steam? Da li je želite mišljenje, prijedloge, savjete, ili se on samo želite odsvirati off parni? No guessing allowed! Nije dopušteno nagađanje! When you guess wrong, you frustrate him by going in a direction he does not want to go. Kada se pogodi krivu, uništiti ga odlaskom u smjeru on ne želi ići. He may see his effort to talk with you as a waste of time and decide not to make that mistake again. On svibanj vidjeti njegov trud da razgovaraju s tobom kao otpad vremena i odlučiti da ne napravi grešku da se opet.

* For accurate communication, ask questions -- not intrusive, prying ones, but check-ins to be certain you are hearing the message as your child intended you to hear and interpret it. * Za točne komunikacija, postaviti pitanja - ne intrusive, prying one, check-ins, ali da se određene ste sluh poruku kao Vaše dijete je namjeru da se čuju i interpretirati.

Be sure you are hearing what your teen means to say rather than what you want your teen to say or what you think your teen should say. Budite sigurni da su vaše teen sluh što znači da kažem nego što želite da Vaš teen reći ili što mislite Vaše teen bi trebao reći. Respond to a thought saying something like, "Is it accurate that you do not like it when X happens?" Odgovori na misao govoreći: "nešto poput:" Je li točne da vam se ne sviđa kada X se događa? "

If that is correct, he will say yes and if not, then he will state his thought differently. Ako je to točno, on će reći da i ako ne, onda će on drzava njegove misli drugačije. Check again -- you want to understand him. Provjerite ponovo - želite razumjeti ga.

When your child sees that you are truly available and paying attention he just may feel understood -- at least in that moment. Kada vaše dijete vidi da su doista na raspolaganju i uplatom pozornost je samo svibanj osjećati razumjeti - barem u tom trenutku. The more moments he feels that way, the more frequently he will talk to you. Što više trenucima on osjeća taj način, češće će razgovarati s vama.

* Listen without judgment. * Poslušajte bez odluke.

* Listen without expectation. * Poslušajte bez očekivanja. When you have no attachment to what will be said or the outcome of what you hear, then you are free to pay attention to every word and every non-verbal clue. Kada nema privitak na ono što će biti, rekao je ili ishodom što vi slušate, onda ste slobodni obratiti pažnju na svaku riječ i svaki neverbalnog trag.

Take all that information, check for your accurate understanding, then follow through with the request your child made for how he wants you to listen to him. Poduzeti sve da informacije, provjerite vaše točne razumijevanja, a zatim pratite putem uz zahtjev za Vaše dijete je napravio kako on želi da se posluša ga.

Your young adult may share things that surprise or scare you. Vaša mlade odrasle svibanj dijeliti stvari koje vas iznenaditi ili preplašiti. He may do that to see your reaction -- or he may do that because he trusts you enough to be frank and honest. On svibanj učiniti da se vidi vaše reakcije - ili on svibanj učiniti da se on uzda, jer ste dovoljno biti iskren i pošten. Your challenge is to listen honestly. Vaš izazov je slušati iskreno.

If you are surprised, it is okay and, in fact wise, to say so. Ako se čude, to je u redu i, zapravo mudar, da tako kažem. Note that it is honest to share your feelings about what he said. Imajte na umu da je pošten da podijelite svoje osjećaje o tome što, rekao je on. However, telling him he is wrong or he should have done such and such differently is judging. Međutim, priča mu je krivo ili je trebalo da učini takvo i takvo je drugačije prosudbu.

You might follow the judgment with a conviction and a sentence. Možda slijedite sud s uvjerenjem i otpuštanja. Such actions could cause you to lose the trust that led to his coming to you in the first place. Takva akcija može prouzročiti da se izgubiti povjerenje koje je dovelo do njegove doći k vama na prvo mjesto. Then you are back to having a teenager who doesn't talk and likes to fight. Tada ćete se vratiti u vlasništvo tinejdžer koji ne voli razgovarati i da se bori.

Consider that there is more than one way to do things and there is more than one solution to any problem. Razmislite o tome da postoji više od jednog načina za napraviti stvari i postoji više od jednog rješenje za bilo koji problem. When your child tells you about something you cannot understand, ask about his thinking that led to that action. Kada Vaše dijete govori o nešto ne možete shvatiti, pitati o njegovom razmišljanja koji je doveo na tu akciju. Ask as many questions as you need to so you can see his perspective. Pitajte što više pitanja kao što vam je potrebno da se na taj način možete vidjeti njegove perspektive.

Seeing his perspective is not the same as approving or agreeing with it. Budući njegova perspektiva nije isto što i odobrava ili suglasni s njim. On the other hand, you may gain a fresh view on whatever the issue is. S druge strane, svibanj dobiti svježu pogled na ono što je problem.

*If your child has done something that breaks a law or a rule in your family, address that issue. * Ako Vaše dijete ima učinili nešto što razbija jedan zakon ili pravilo u vašoj obitelji, adresu koja tema. Brainstorm for solutions together. Brainstorm za rješenja zajedno. Empower your teen to be responsible for every action he takes -- or fails to take -- in his life. Osnažiti vaš teen biti odgovoran za svaku radnju je potrebno - i ne uspije poduzeti - u svoj život.

Pretending not to notice undesirable behaviors will not make them disappear. Lažno ne primjetiti nepoželjan ponašanja neće učiniti ih nestati. Follow the same brainstorming techniques to deal with such instances. Slijedite iste brainstorming tehnike za rješavanje takvih slučajeva. You will be surprised how simple it is to create win-win outcomes. Bit ćete iznenađeni kako Jednostavan je za kreiranje win-win ishoda. I did not say easy. I nije lako reći. I said simple. I rekao je jednostavan. Success happens after doing it, doing it, doing it, until it becomes natural. Uspjeh će se dogoditi nakon što radi, radi, radi, dok ne postane prirodno. Yes, that task may take effort and seem like work. Da, da je zadatak svibanj uzeti napora i izgledaju kao rad.

Actions and results, desirable and undesirable, reflect self esteem. Akcije i rezultati, poželjni i nepoželjni, odražavaju samo poštovanje. To change behaviors, treat the cause not just the symptoms. Za promjenu ponašanja, liječiti uzrok a ne samo na simptome.

What are the hidden thoughts of your teen costing him -- and you? Koje su skrivene misli vaše teen troška ga - i ti?

About the Author/Author Bio O Autor / Author Bio

Ali Bierman, parent, psychotherapist and author of the popular ebook, Parents, You Gotta Ask Questions: How To Build Adolescent Self Esteem, will take you by the hand and show you how she raised two great kids with open communication. Ali Bierman, roditelj, psychotherapist i autor popularne eBook, roditelji, You Gotta postaviti pitanja: kako da napravite adolescentnoj Self poštovanje, odvest će Vas u ruke i pokazati kako je uzrokovao dva velika djeca s otvorenim komunikacije. To find out more and grab your gift, the e-course, Parents, Are You Making These 6 Mistakes With Your Teen(R) click here www.saveyourchildnow.com Da biste saznali više i iskoristite dar, e-naravno, roditelji, Are You Ove 6 Making Mistakes sa svojim Teen (R) kliknite ovdje www.saveyourchildnow.com

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