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When it comes to women and dating, there's a very good chance that you have more than enough "information". Smart guys often use "more information" to distract them from taking action.
Most people don’t use their memories to help them feel good because they say, “Well, that’s not really how I’m feeling; I’m just imagining it.” Well, I have news for you: You’re ALWAYS just imagining it. You might as well imagine it at times when you need it instead of having it happen on accident!
Always end conversations, meetings, and phone calls first. The reason for this is that it does two things: First, it says, “I’m not a needy guy, and I have things to do. I’m busy and if you want me, you’re going to have to work to get me.”
Well, after continuing along the same path and getting the same results, I realized something that literally changed everything for me. I realized that jerks do, in fact, attract hot women.
Most of the time, I'm enjoying myself, talking about whatever comes up, making jokes, and generally behaving like a normal person. But, like anything else, if these techniques are used too much, they become worthless... so they must be used with precision and at the right moments.
What prevents men from being successful with women? Well, the list goes on and on... but one of the elements that tops the list is Fear. There are many different situations that make men feel fear, but I'd like to talk about some of the most common ones... and what to do about them. First of all, I'd like you to be honest for a moment about this topic. Do you ever feel fear when it comes to women and dating?
If you're ready to stop losing women faster than you can meet them, then it's probably time for you to step up and get yourself an education about how to attract women and keep them attracted.
There is one aspect of romance that I have found very useful to know more about and use. It's the concept of how to create a setting that will create more of a feeling of attraction inside of the woman that you are with.
"The Genius Failure Paradox" is the tendency for unusually intelligent men to have very low levels of success with women and dating. After contemplating this particular paradox, discussing it, and working on it for an awesome amount of time, I'd like to share my thoughts about it with you.
When I think of the concept of attraction, I think of it primarily as an emotion. It seems to me that it's more a combination of powerful emotions that come together to form a very, very special new super-emotion. Before you read further, I'd like you to take a minute and think about what the word attraction means to you.
One guy I know always has girls around him. In fact, I don't think I've ever seen him without at least one girl with him. Usually he has three or four girls with him... and sometimes up to 10 or 12. He always makes fun of the girls, teases them, and treats them like good friends who he's comfortable enough to bust on.
Now, here's where romance fits into the puzzle... If you're doing things that you consider to be "romantic" all the time, then she has nothing to wonder about... nothing to think about... there is no challenge or mystery at all.
One of the main reasons why I talk about and teach the concept of attraction is that when it comes to these types of situations, the real underlying reason for them is usually that the woman doesn't feel attraction anymore. When it all boils down, she just plain does not feel it. Now, a woman will say and do all kinds of things other than telling you that this is the problem.
It's important to realize that there's a big difference between actual rejection (having a girl who is offended, upset, rude, etc. to you when you start talking to her) and the fear of rejection (how you feel when you imagine a woman rejecting you).
This kind of behavior, sending mixed messages, and flirting doesn’t really make sense to most men, but to women it’s magic. Also, some women really get intrigued if you ‘figure them out’ early on in the game and have their number... and then just ‘laugh at how cute they are’ when they do things.
Another huge mistake men make is giving away our power to women. I'm not going to go into it, but the reality is that women are not attracted to weak men. And I'm not talking about muscles here. If you act like a Wuss, you are shooting yourself in the foot. Here are a few examples of how we guys act predictable, give away our power, and make about 147 other huge mistakes with women we've just met...
See if you can just learn how to do a few simple things like say, "Hi" to every woman that walks by... how to maintain eye contact with women until they look away... and how to end a conversation "too soon" so she feels a natural vacuum and tries to keep it going herself...
Many singles I know are looking for online dating advice. Recently several of us got together to and came up with the following online dating advice nuggets...
There is one aspect of romance that I have found very useful to know more about and use. It's the concept of how to create a setting that will create more of a feeling of attraction inside of the woman that you are with.
Excellent social skills are the foundation for good communication with other humans... and if you don't have good social skills, you dramatically lower your chances for success with women.
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