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Having a 'should' collection is a widespread and generally accepted form of mental clutter. But the good news is that if you choose not to accept the 'shoulds' and instead set about decluttering them, you can liberate your own mind and free yourself to live a fulfilling and successful life. Related Article Tags: , , , , , , Balance is more of a way of life, not a result one tries to achieve. Discover what causes us to be out of balance or "off". Related Article Tags: , , , , It is not uncommon to see coaches orient their businesses around many things including needs, wants and shoulds. But, being clear on your values will call you to play a much bigger, more meaningful game as a coach. The values conversation is often fuzzy for many people, yet it is one that cannot be ignored. Here are some of the basic principles: Related Article Tags: , , , OK, so we have a New Year ahead of us and we've gotta make it count. Being self-employed, it all depends on us. That means having a clear plan for what we want. This article shows you how I (and my private clients) map out our goals with a 3-year vision. Why 3 years? Read the article and you'll know exactly why. Related Article Tags: , , , , , , , Imagine telling a significant role model in your life something new and exciting. An idea or event that has stimulated you both mentally and physically. It can be anything from trying out for a dramatic play, joining a sports team, beginning a new career, starting a new marriage, losing weight, developing a new outlook, changing your image, or continuing your education. Instead of receiving an encouraging comment, what you hear instead is: "That's ridiculous," "You're always daydreaming," or "You'll never make anything out of yourself." Related Article Tags: , , Have you asked yourself, "What am I really committed to"? It is now time to check in to see how you're doing with your New Year's intentions. How is your progress? What can you celebrate about honoring your intentions for this year? Where are you falling short of your expectations and what needs to happen to get back on track? Related Article Tags: , , Overwhelm, distractions and the inability to say NO keep many people from achieving their potential. Clarifying priorities and sticking to them are key to moving your business forward and achieving your financial goals! Related Article Tags: , , , , , , Different governments, officials, environmental agencies exhort us to conserve the energy we use in order to save the environment and sustain our continued existence on the planet.
On a personal level I think that we also need to know how to conserve, focus and maximise our own personal supply of energy. We unconsciously dissipate and waste our energy on people, situations, thoughts, attitudes and events which do not serve us well. Related Article Tags: , , , , , A look at how pervasive is the formation of self-defeating thoughts and how early we created them. Related Article Tags: , , , ,
This article shows midlife women (35-65) why they need to reconnect with their authentic selves that were repressed in childhood in order to be safe, and suppressed in young adulthood in order to fit in. Included are suggestions for taking inventory and tools for inner exploration. Related Article Tags: , , , , , , Success seems to be connected with action. Learn how to get rid of clutter, work faster, avoid procrastination and become more self-disciplined. Reprogram your mind from negative self-talk and self-limiting beliefs. After all, how many times in a day do we "should" all over ourselves with everything we should be doing?! Desiring to have fun is natural, normal and an a sound approach to a healthy state of being. Your life cannot help but flourish if your daily routine is infused with FUN. Consider it a basic need along with food, shelter, clothing, Etc! Of course, this is not to say that you don't take important things seriously. It is to say, however, that you don't treat every experience as though your life depends on it. Related Article Tags: , , , Why do we buy things for each other? Why do we pay an expensive flight ticket to celebrate with the family? Why do we diet before a get together? Why do we clean the carpet just before the holidays? What is important to us in all of this? Why is it so important to us? If we ask people what's the most important thing in their life, they say "happiness". Surprisingly, it is not money, not success, not fame but happiness. Deep inside, we all know that the reason we buy things, get together with family, diet or clean the carpet is our desire for good, happy feelings. Related Article Tags: , , , , , , , , , In our free course about the Top 10 Compatibilities for a Successful Relationship and in our Love by Design book we mention that one of the potential incompatitabilities in a relationship is what we call people who are Charactered Disordered. Character disordered people are people who simply put, lack character. Related Article Tags: , , , , Words are a manifesting power that is one level closer to manifesting in form than is the power of thought. A next level that is even closer to form is the manifesting power of deed or action. Related Article Tags: , , , ,
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