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True love lasts in more ways than you can imagine. When you love someone, no matter how far they go from you and no matter where they are the love you feel for them will always remain. This love you feel for them might even get stronger with distance. You will feel that you miss the person when he is not around and you will be able to keep the communication longer. The saying distance makes the heart fonder I think was meant for people who really love each other and not just for people who have a liking for you and when you get out of the door they forget you exist. Have you ever wondered what kind of lover you are in a relationship. Wether you are the romantic type, the obsessive one or just a plain nice one who though people like you very much, whenever they meet with someone else they leave you for them? The question is does true love really exists or is it just a facade in some people's mind and as a fact it really does not exist? The answer to that is so varied. Everyone has got his or her on idea of love. If you meet with someone who has been hurt broken so many times and they even stopped counting you will not hear the word true love. True love really exists. It is very rare but some people are lucky enough to find it. If you are one of those lucky people who have found true love, make sure you hold on to it. Never ever make people you love feel like you are using them and that you do not love. This is because they might leave when you least expect it. However, there are some people who think that they are in love and that there love is true only for them to discover otherwise. Everyone remembers their first true love. Perhaps this is because you did everything special for the first time together. Your first true love would be the first person you ever kissed for the first time. They are probably the ones that made your heart beat loud and fast every time you saw them around and when they touched your hands, you went speechless. When you say you love some truly what do you mean. Do you see the person and all you feel is some sort of excitement that goes on in your body. Is love according you a feeling that one feels when they see another person? You could be right for after all, you cannot say you love someone and you feel nothing for them. What’s true love you might ask. How do you know you are having true love? The Bible clearly defines what love is in first Corinthians 13:4-8a. It goes on to say what love is. It says love is patient, kind, it is not proud, it doesn't boast and it is not envious. I could never put it down as nicely as the bible. I do believe that love is a process. You do not see a person and love them there and then, there has to be a few moments in which you looked at the person and felt like you really love him. Making a friendship that lasts forever might seem a bit over the top but, if you look closely to some friendships, you will discover that theirs is a friendship that lasts forever. You can have friends so close to you that they become part of your family. There are ways in which you can transform your relationships to make them this way. It is never an easy task and, you have to begin with yourself. All people want to have the friendship that lasts. This is because having good friends in life is very vital. The friendship that lasts need a lot of work and instead of just wishing for it, it is vital that you look at some of the things that you can do to make sure that it lasts long. The following tips will help you not just establish good friendships but those that will last.
You are getting attracted. You think about him/her. You want to be with your object of love. You are showing all the signs of being in love. Everyone would like to walk down the path of true love. No one has actually ever promised that it will be smooth all the way but still there are a lot of people who would give anything to experience true love and to be loved. The main reason for this is that when someone falls in love and they love each other truly, the world around them seems to be okay. Many people have had their doubts about true love. This could be because of the many experiences they have gone through. Some of them have been in abusive relationships where the partner abused them physically and emotionally, some later discovered that their mate did not actually love them but was using them for some other gains. When you finally find your one and only true love, you know for sure that you have found happiness. Nothing else seems to matter apart from the fact that you are together and everything seems to go right. True love lives in the two of you and you always know that no matter what happens you will always have each other. True love, many people are looking for this one and only true love. Some of them will be lucky to find true love in their lifetime. Some of them will be so unlucky. The other day a friend of mine after breaking up her relationship came crying to me. She told me she believes that her true love died a long time ago and it is almost fruitless to even try and find it anyway. As I listen to her, a thought struck me, could that be true and if it is true. I recently asked a small child to define love for me and this is what she came up with. She said love is when you see someone sad you try to make them smile and that when you see them cry you reach out and make them stop crying. She went ahead to say a person who loves you will send you presents. According to me dating in itself is some kind of true love game. A game generally involves a person loosing or winning. In a true love game, the same can happen. You can either win by finding your one and only love or loose by not finding him or her. Just like any other game, true love game has got its own rules and regulations. You are looking for that perfect compatible person for you and there is no settling for less. After all you want the best for you and nothing short of the best. True love is loving someone with everything you have got. Not being afraid of showing that person that you love them and not holding back in any way. True love is also giving someone space to grow room to be free to do something without being afraid of being judged. Have you been in a relationship and everything just doesn’t seem right. You feel empty and everytime you are with your partner you cannot wait to get out of the house and go somewhere far from where they are? You could have also tried to break up with them but the problem is, every time you get into a new relationship you feel the same way, empty. Maybe that is the way your life is supposed to be, you reason. That is not true. You just havent met your one and true love. There are so many true love symbols in the world. Most of them are love symbol but when they are sent by someone who really loves you, it is a true love symbol. So if someone sent you a cupid it means that he or she loves you. A cupid is sometimes depicted as a picture of a baby naked and blindfolded with wings. It is referred to as Putto. It is said to be the son of the Goddess of love. It has a bow and arrow aimed at a heart. For a relationship to last, there are few basic requirements. The rapidity with which relationships are breaking in the modern days is a matter of concern and we should try to find out how to make a relationship that lasts for a long time.
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